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Spoiling me is entirely optional- it sounds cheesy but I really love just spending time with you.  I’m including ideas for trifles and baubles not so much because I expect you to bring me a gift but because you can get a real sense of someone’s personality from what they like.  That aside if you simply MUST, well, I won’t stop you, and I have a very effusive style of thanks;)

If you want to bring along something for us to share, I love fruit or cheese, and don’t much care for chocolate.  I prefer drier wines (Albarino, Pinot Blanc, Cotes Du Rhones- please though not Chardonnay) or a pilsner, and if I’m at a nice bar I like a Boulevardier.

For a gift from afar, or if you want me to get to muse over just the right thing, gift cards are a great way to go.  Amazon, Net-a-Porter, Flywheel, Heday, REI, heck- an Uber gift card doesn’t ever go to waste.  I have wish list filled out *here* and *here*.  You will learn that I have a near pathological interest in black tights, lush bedding and plants.  I have a plant thing guys!  I really like them.  And they get bigger!  So you need bigger pots.  I’m also a big fan of kitchen nonsense and diving kit.

If you’re thinking that you’d like to be there for the unwrapping I dearly love lingerie, and could list so many treasured makers.  La Perla, Stella McCartney and Mimi Holliday are my favorites, but I have pieces by AP, Huit, Aubade, Wolford . . .  Please don’t hesitate to ask if you’d like to see a variety.  I’m a 34C and I take a large knicker because I hate being pinched:)

More wild card things that while less sexy are dearest to my heart?  Are all about movement, adventure.  I love being out on the water, and am a moderately OK sailor and an excellent swimmer.  I love ballet and theater, and there are always tickets I am considering.  Flying lessons, sailing courses, kayaking, backpacking, biking a new country- my most treasured possessions are  (cheese/cliche alert but it’s true!) memories.  I want to make more of them.

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